How was your Thanksgiving?

Just checking in to see how your Thanksgiving went! Did you survive it? Was it a disaster? Was it maybe not as bad as you feared it would be?

My Thanksgiving wasn’t too bad actually. And I’m relieved that we are one 3rd of the way through the holiday season.

I would love to hear from anybody who has anything at all to say about how their Thanksgiving went, the good the bad the ugly, etc. and if you’re on a diet, were you able to stick to your diet at Thanksgiving? Or did your given diet take a serious nosedive, and now you are living with regret after eating too much stuffing, too many trimmings, too much gravy, too much pumpkin pie. Well, you get the picture.…

But today is another day, right? Of course it is! Oh, and by the way, we can all be thankful everyday of the year, right? We don’t really need a holiday to celebrate what ever we have to be thankful for. And for many of us, we have many many many blessings to be thankful for.

And even if your Thanksgiving wasn’t everything you had hoped it would be, remember that it was just one day in a series of many. And now, we move on to the next biggie. And you know what that one is!

Thanks for reading my latest post! Would love to hear from you!

Lisa Valentine/Relationship Psychic

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Surviving the holidays! Can you get off the hook this year?

Hello my dear readers,

It’s that time of year again! Are you starting to feel anxious about the holidays? Feeling perhaps uncomfortable about some of the people you are supposed to be seeing for Thanksgiving, for example?

Do you ever wish that you could take a break completely from the holidays, even if just for one year?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, I’m here to tell you that you’re not alone, and furthermore there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you! Sure, holidays can be great, beautiful, worth being thankful for, etc. But often, for many of us, the holidays are fraught with feelings of pressure, stress, the need to be perfect, and other awkward elements that challenge us to the core of our very being.

For example, let’s say you’re on a diet, or maybe even practicing at refraining from eating meat, or sugar. And let’s say you’ve decided to surround yourself with only healthy relationships in an earnest effort to redefine yourself, and maybe cut ties from those people who you have felt hurt by on some level. And let’s say those people are family members, or extended family members. What’s a person to do?

Or what have you been struggling with infertility and the gathering are expected to attend, such as Thanksgiving, will include one or two expectant mothers,  mothers and their new babies and  a bunch is little children  joyfully running all around. Is ok to politely decline an invitation in this case? In this case, I would say it is absolutely ok to decline.

Is there a law that says we must attend all social gatherings around the holidays? No.

Is it okay to take a breather from the holidays without guilt, or remorse? Yes!! Why not?  Whose life is it anyway?
It’s YOURS!!!

Please feel free to comment here so we can get a discussion going.  I’m looking forward to all replies.

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This blog will continue with more thoughts to help us all during this time of year!

If you’d like to contact me, please use the contact form on this page.   If you’re in need of a reading to help you through the holidays, I’m here for you!

Lisa Valentine

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Are you wondering how a certain love interest feels about you?

Are you feeling confused about a certain person who you may be interested in, not really sure how they feel, or what they may even be thinking about you?

Are you hoping for a guarantee before making a step foreword in approaching a certain person who you may be interested in?

Wouldn’t it be great if we all had a crystal ball and could determine the outcome of the situation before we even  took steps to approach the given person? Hsmm… Join the human race!

 in a relationship reading with me, I can tune in to how that person may be feeling about you, and what the potential for future relationship may be with that person. But remember, what you do, think, feel, and how you act, and what steps you take in any given situation, is always 50% of the equation!

Part of what I do in a psychic reading his help to empower you toward positive change in your life, by seeing what it is you can do and what steps you can take for the healthiest outcome.

It always feels good to have support, if you’re feeling confused, or having trouble getting a clear perspective. In my humble opinion it’s always best to 1st ask yourself what are you doing, thinking, feeling. How are you acting. How can you empower yourself to operate from strength. Remember there are no foolproof methods, and once again no guarantees. Nobody is perfect. We’re all here on this planet just trying to find our way. Nobody is better than anybody else. Everybody has a past. And no matter what, everybody needs to feel a sense of importance, and to be loved and cared for, even if they have an issue with receiving love or giving love.

And it is not at all unusual that the pain we may have suffered in childhood, we try to fix with our subsequent relationships, such as love relationships we later involve ourselves with. But no new person is able to fix whatever you may have suffered with as a child. This is a hard reality to face. But know this, that you are not alone if you find yourself in the situation, where you are attracted to someone who reminds you of a parent, caretaker, role model, sibling,

What’s the solution to this conundrum? The solution may be to look deeper within yourself and ask yourself what actions can you take right now in this moment to become more conscious of a pattern like this that is holding you back from moving forward.

With my support you’ll receive suggestions and advice as to what steps you can start to take to help yourself along in a positive way leading you to a happier outcome. Remember, you steer your own ship. Nobody else is in charge of your decisions or choices. You have your own mind, and nobody can take that from you. Even if you feel like a victim of the situation or a person, your choices, actions, decisions have tremendous power and influence. With a positive mindset, you can stop being the victim,  and turn yourself into a winner, if you’re willing to do the work on your own behalf.

Please feel free to post your comments or use the contact form to contact me directly. I would love to hear from you! Thanks for reading my blog!

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